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I believe every woman deserves to feel vibrant, confident and fulfilled, especially in her 40s and beyond. It's not about turning back time; it's about embracing the wisdom you've gained and channeling it into a powerful, intentional future. A "glow up" is an awakening, reinvention and finding purpose. A transformation of mind, body, and soul.
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My Final 90

I'm 49 and over 200 pounds down, mostly the slow and steady way. Now I'm sharing my last 90 pounds, one week at a time.

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Getting myself a weight loss coach aka my 27 year old son.

My son will definitely hold my accountable as I continue my weight loss journey and plan to loose the last 90 lbs to reach my goal weight.

#weightlossjourney #midlifejourney 
#womenover40 #midlifewomen #healthylifestyle
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Sunday reset: Salsa Verde Turkey & Cauliflower Rice Skillet ✨

7 ingredients, one pan, and lunch is officially handled for the week. Packing 16g of protein and less than 5g net carbs per cup, you can double up on a serving for a huge 32g protein bowl under 375 calories.

Ingredients 
• 2 lbs 85% ground turkey
• 2 bags frozen steamed cauliflower rice
• 1.5 jars Cholula Salsa Verde
• 1 chopped white onion
• 1.5 cups chopped cilantro
• 1 tbsp extra virgin olive oil
• 1 tbsp minced garlic

Nutrition per 1 cup (makes  10.5 cups):
186 Cals | 16g Protein | 11g Fat | 6g Carbs (4.6g Net)

Save this post for later & drop a 🔥 if you’re trying this!

#mealprepsunday #easyhealthymeals #mealprepping #womenover40 #midlifewomen
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You wouldn't swipe your credit card if your bank account was empty, so why do we keep doing it with our hours?

For years, I said yes to everything and everyone, and paid for it by cutting out my own sleep, health, and fun. Living within your time means putting your own rest on the calendar first in permanent ink.

What is one thing you are taking off your plate this week to pay yourself back? Tell me in the comments!

#MoreTime #WomenOver40 #MidlifeWellness #MidlifeLifestyle  #midlifewomen
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Please Rate my Plate...🍽️
Not sure why I've been on a plateau for over 6 months. Very frustrating.

✨ I'm 49 years old, in perimenopause, I weigh 230 lbs. I have been on my midlife weight loss journey since 2022. I've lost 200 lbs mostly naturally and was on medication for 3  months. I have another 90 lbs to to reach my goal. 

♥️ For my weight loss journey I concentrate on protein, fiber, calories and longevity.

⭐️ Please rate 1 to 5... 5 being the best. Please provide suggestions and comments, every little bit helps. 🍽️

 Thank you for your support and encouragement.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.

Live a life you’d want to live twice.

Love, Jax

#womenover40
#midlifereinvention
#weightlossjourney
#midlifeweightloss
#midlifewomen
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Learning that wellness at 49 isn’t about pushing harder, it’s about recovering smarter. ✨ 

Adding the infrared sauna into my routine to lower stress, sleep deeper, and help my muscles recover from lifting weights. Less cortisol, better recovery, and 30 minutes of uninterrupted quiet. 

Stella Lune Counseling & Wellness
Middleburg Heights, OH

#WellnessJourney #PerimenopauseHealth #InfraredSauna #womenover40 #midlifewomen
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Grocery order haul this week...🛒

✨ I'm 49 years old, in perimenopause, I weigh 230 lbs. I have been on my midlife weight loss journey since 2022. I've lost 200 lbs mostly naturally and was on medication for 3  months. I have another 90 lbs to to reach my goal. 

This is my wellness and weight loss grocery hsil from this week. I do live in Cleveland Ohio and this weekend I shopped at Giant Eagle.

Hope this inspires and motivates you. This honestly keeps me Happy Saturday and thank you for your support and encouragement.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.

Live a life you’d want to live twice.

Love, Jax

#womenover40
#healthylifestyle 
#weightlossjourney
#midlifeweightloss
#midlifewomen

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Please Rate my Plate...🍽️
Not sure why I've been on a plateau for over 6 months. Very frustrating.

✨ I'm 49 years old, in perimenopause, I weigh 230 lbs. I have been on my midlife weight loss journey since 2022. I've lost 200 lbs mostly naturally and was on medication for 3  months. I have another 90 lbs to to reach my goal. 

♥️ For my weight loss journey I concentrate on protein, fiber, calories and longevity.

⭐️ Please rate 1 to 5... 5 being the best. Please provide suggestions and comments, every little bit helps. 🍽️

Happy Saturday and thank you for your support and encouragement.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.

Live a life you’d want to live twice.

Love, Jax

#womenover40
#midlifereinvention
#weightlossjourney
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#midlifeawakening #midlifereinvention #womenover40 #womenover50 #midlifejourney
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Please Rate my Plate...🍽️
Not sure why I've been on a plateau for over 6 months. Very frustrating.

✨ I'm 49 years old, in perimenopause, I weigh 230 lbs. I have been on my midlife weight loss journey since 2022. I've lost 200 lbs mostly naturally and was on medication for 3  months. I have another 90 lbs to to reach my goal. 

♥️ For my weight loss journey I concentrate on protein, fiber, calories and longevity.

⭐️ Please rate 1 to 5... 5 being the best. Please provide suggestions and comments, every little bit helps. 🍽️

Happy Saturday and thank you for your support and encouragement.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.

Live a life you’d want to live twice.

Love, Jax

#womenover40
#midlifereinvention
#weightlossjourney
#midlifeweightloss
#midlifewomen
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Recipe⬇️
I love early Sunday AM meal prep mornings. I cooked Asaim Ground Chicken w/ Veggies at 5am with old school Martha Stewart tv shows playing in the background.

Asian Ground Chicken w/ Veggies

2 lbs ground chicken
1 large bowl choy chopped bite size
5-6 green onions diced
2 cups bean sprouts
Minced garlic 1-2 teaspoons 
Sesame oil to taste
Rice vinegar to taste
Salt, pepper, garlic to taste
Evoo 1-2 teaspoons 

Evoo and minced garlic in pot cook
Add ground chicken and break while cooking through
Add sesame oil and rice vinegar with seasoning 
Once cooked add veggies and cook for 10-12 minutes till cooked well and soft

Have a great Self-Care Sunday.

Love,
Jax

Come follow and join the party for real life midlife motivation and inspiration in wellness, weight loss, mindset and lifestyle.

Soon to come a midlife women's glow-up online community and glow-up retreats in Charleston SC.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.

#womenover40
#midlifereinvention
#weightlossjourney 
#mealprep 
#midlifewomen
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🗞️Current Health studies, show and book releases, restaurant specials and store sales, financial news, scams and recalls. Plus 10 US travel events 8 weeks from today so you can plan, book and look forward to.

Come follow and join the party for real life midlife motivation and inspiration in wellness, weight loss, mindset and lifestyle.

Soon to come a midlife women's glow-up online community and glow-up retreats in Charleston SC.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.

Live a life you’d want to live twice.

Love, Jax

#womenover40
#trendingnews 
#womensnews 
#lifestylenews 
#midlifewomen
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Down 200+ lbs, 90 to go, age 49 ♥️✨
My meal plan for today:
✨Breakfast:
Overnight Rolled Oates with sweet potato and apple hash
✨Lunch:
Asian turkey stir fry
✨Dinner:
Garlicky steak bites, roasted mini potatoes and roasted broccoli 
✨Snack:
Cleveland Kraut
Garlic sauerkraut 
2 Espresso black and 90 oz of water
+
40 oz Glow water:
Loam fiber powder 
Electrolytes 
Pearl powder 
40 oz water 

✨Movement 
5am
Somatic movement 
Lower body: squats, lunges, thigh raises
✨Walk: 30, 15, 30, 15, 15 minutes throughout the day.

✨Come follow and join the party for real life midlife motivation and inspiration in wellness, weight loss, mindset and lifestyle.
♥️Soon to come a midlife women's glow-up online community and glow-up retreats in Charleston SC.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

✨Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.
👌Live a life you’d want to live twice.

♥️Love, Jax

#womenover40
#midlifereinvention
#weightlossjourney 
#transformyourlife
#midlifewomen
17 5
I love early Sunday AM meal prep mornings. I cooked garlicky steak at 5am with old school Martha Stewart tv shows playing in the background.

I cooked garlicky steak bites, roasted potatoes and Asian ground turkey stir fry and oats in ricotta cheese, milk, cinnamon and maple syrup topped with roasted cinnamon apples and sweet potato hash.

Have a great Self-Care Sunday.

Love,
Jax

Come follow and join the party for real life midlife motivation and inspiration in wellness, weight loss, mindset and lifestyle.

Soon to come a midlife women's glow-up online community and glow-up retreats in Charleston SC.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.

Live a life you’d want to live twice.

Love, Jax

#womenover40
#midlifereinvention
#weightlossjourney 
#transformyourlife
#midlifewomen
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Age 49, Down 200 lbs + mostly naturally.
90 more pounds to loose.

My quick 20 minute early Sunday grocery haul.

Fruit, veggies and meat.

I cooked garlicky steak bites, roasted potatoes and Asian ground turkey stir fry and oats in ricotta cheese, milk, cinnamon and maple syrup topped with roasted cinnamon apples and sweet potato hash.

Have a great Self-Care Sunday.

Love,
Jax

Come follow and join the party for real life midlife motivation and inspiration in wellness, weight loss, mindset and lifestyle.

Soon to come a midlife women's glow-up online community and glow-up retreats in Charleston SC.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.

Live a life you’d want to live twice.

Love, Jax

#womenover40
#midlifereinvention
#weightlossjourney 
#transformyourlife
#midlifewomen
10 3
Age 49, Down 200 lbs + mostly naturally.
90 more pounds to loose.

My meal plan for today:

Breakfast 
Homemade Protein Bar 
25 g protein 
12 g fiber 

Lunch
Ground beef taco with veggies 

Dinner 
Breakfast for dinner
Eggs, chicken sausage, asparagus, roasted sweet potatoes 

Snack
Cleveland Kraut
Garlic sauerkraut 

2 Espresso black and 90 oz of water
+
40 oz Glow water:
Loam fiber powder 
Electrolytes 
Pearl powder 
40 oz water 

Come follow and join the party for real life midlife motivation and inspiration in wellness, weight loss, mindset and lifestyle.

Soon to come a midlife women's glow-up online community and glow-up retreats in Charleston SC.

Podcast - The Midlife Glowgetter
Website: www.jaxstys.com
Free Newsletter & Guides in link in bio.
Soon to come glowgetter retreats in SC & CO.

Oh and remember it is never too late to create a life and lifestyle you love.

Live a life you’d want to live twice.

Love, Jax

#womenover40
#midlifereinvention
#weightlossjourney 
#transformyourlife
#midlifewomen
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Women over 40, I did the scrolling for you. ☕

This week: The Diplomat is back, the Social Security raise drops October 14, Medicare Open Enrollment opens October 15, and Aspen lift tickets are $3.75 on December 14. Yes, really.

I checked every single item against a real source. If it's on my list, it's real.

The full list, with every link, lands in your inbox every Friday in the morning in my new Friday newsletter, The Midlife GlowGetter: The Friday Glow Report. 

Rather listen? It's also on The Midlife GlowGetter Podcast every Friday morning.

Tap the link in my bio to get The Friday Glow Report free, every Friday at 6 AM. Then tell me below: which one are you most excited about?

#WomenOver40 #MidlifeWomen #MidlifeGlowUp #FridayFinds #MidlifeGlowGetter
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