Sleep is a pillar of health, yet so many of us, especially women in midlife, find ourselves running on fumes, surviving on just 5 hours of sleep a night (sound familiar?). For years, I lived like this, juggling responsibilities and collapsing into bed only to toss and turn. But once I started researching and testing sleep strategies, everything changed.
Now, I enjoy a glorious 7-8 hours of quality sleep each night. I wake up focused, alert, and in a better mood. I’m less hungry during the day, rarely catch colds, and yes, I look better too. If sleep feels elusive, let me share the practices that transformed my nights, and my life.
Sleep challenges during midlife are common. Hormonal changes, stress, and lifestyle habits all play a role. Research shows that 40-60% of women aged 40-70 experience sleep disturbances, and poor sleep quality is linked to weight gain, irritability, weakened immunity, and even an increased risk of chronic conditions like heart disease and diabetes.
But here’s the good news: you can reclaim your nights. It just takes intention and a little trial and error. Here are 12 tried-and-true strategies that worked for me (and could work for you too).
Ever heard of the circadian rhythm? It’s your body’s internal clock that thrives on consistency. By going to bed and waking up at the same time every day, even on weekends, you can train your body to fall asleep faster and wake up feeling refreshed.
Why it works: Studies show that irregular sleep patterns disrupt your circadian rhythm, leading to poor-quality sleep.
Tip: Set a “wind-down alarm” to remind you it’s time to get ready for bed.
Your brain needs signals to shift from “go mode” to “rest mode.” A calming pre-bed routine can do wonders.
Ideas for a routine:
• Take a warm bath with Epsom salts (bonus: magnesium absorbs through the skin!).
• Journal about your day or write down tomorrow’s to-do list to clear mental clutter.
• Practice deep breathing or gentle yoga stretches.
Why it works: Research from Harvard Medical School confirms that relaxation techniques reduce stress and promote deeper sleep.
That 3 PM coffee may seem harmless, but caffeine has a sneaky half-life of 5-6 hours, meaning half of it is still in your system at bedtime.
Why it matters: Caffeine blocks adenosine, the chemical that makes you feel sleepy. It also interferes with melatonin production, crucial for sleep regulation.
Pro tip: Switch to herbal teas like chamomile or rooibos in the afternoon.
Regular movement isn’t just good for your waistline, it’s a sleep enhancer too.
Why it helps: Exercise reduces stress, balances hormones, and improves your overall sleep quality. A study in the journal Sleep Medicine Reviewsfound that regular physical activity can decrease the time it takes to fall asleep by 55%.
When to exercise: Morning workouts are ideal. Avoid vigorous activity within 2 hours of bedtime, as it might keep you wired.
A late-night burger or big bowl of pasta might sound comforting, but it can wreak havoc on your sleep.
Why it matters: Eating heavy meals close to bedtime can cause indigestion and acid reflux, disrupting your rest.
What to do: Finish eating at least 3 hours before bed. If you need a snack, opt for something light like a banana or a handful of almonds.
Natural sunlight first thing in the morning tells your body: It’s daytime, let’s go! This strengthens your circadian rhythm and helps you sleep better at night.
Why it works: Sunlight increases serotonin production, which converts to melatonin in the evening. A study in Chronobiology International found that daily sunlight exposure significantly improved sleep duration and quality.
How to do it: Spend 15-30 minutes outside within an hour of waking.
Your phone, TV, and laptop emit blue light, which tricks your brain into thinking it’s still daytime.
Why it’s a problem: Blue light suppresses melatonin production, making it harder to fall asleep.
Solution: Use blue light-blocking glasses or switch devices to “night mode.” Even better, put the screens away and read a book or listen to calming music instead.
Raise your hand if night sweats have ever woken you up in the middle of the night. (Mine’s up too!) Keeping your bedroom cool, between 60-67°F, is ideal for sleep.
Why it works: Your body temperature naturally drops during sleep. A cool room supports this process and prevents overheating.
Pro tip: Invest in a cooling mattress pad or breathable, moisture-wicking bedding.
Dry air can cause stuffy noses, dry skin, and irritated sinuses, all of which can disrupt your sleep.
Why it helps: A humidifier keeps the air moist and comfortable, especially during winter or in dry climates.
Extra bonus: Add a few drops of lavender essential oil for a relaxing aroma.
Midlife women are often deficient in magnesium and vitamin D, both of which are vital for good sleep.
Magnesium: Calms the nervous system and helps regulate sleep-wake cycles.
• Best sources: Magnesium glycinate or magnesium citrate supplements.
Vitamin D: Taken in the morning, it regulates melatonin production.
• Sources: Supplements or foods like salmon, fortified orange juice, and egg yolks.
Tip: Always check with your doctor before starting new supplements.
Omega-3s are anti-inflammatory powerhouses that also support hormonal balance and brain health, contributing to better sleep.
Why it helps: Research in The Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine links omega-3 intake with improved sleep duration and quality.
How to get it: Add fatty fish like salmon, chia seeds, or walnuts to your meals. If you’re not a fan of fish, consider a high-quality fish oil supplement.
When all else fails, let someone else lull you to sleep. Apps like Calm and Headspace offer guided meditations and bedtime stories designed to help you relax.
Why it works: Studies show that mindfulness meditation reduces insomnia and improves sleep quality.
Tip: Experiment with different narrators and styles until you find one that works for you. (Stephen Fry’s sleep stories are a personal favorite!)
Remember: getting good sleep isn’t indulgent or selfish, it’s essential. Prioritizing sleep improves every aspect of your life, from your energy levels and mood to your relationships and overall health.
So, pick one or two of these strategies to start with, and build from there. Don’t expect perfection right away, this is a journey, and every small step counts. And when you finally hit that magical 7-8 hours of deep, uninterrupted sleep? Trust me, you’ll feel like a new woman.
Sweet dreams, my friend. You’ve got this!
Let me reintroduce myself. I`m Jax — 48, Cleveland mama, loan officer by day, glow-up coach by choice. Down 180 lbs since 2022 with 90 more to go. This account is for every woman 40+ ready to SHOW UP for herself. 💪
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Midlife made me honest. Honest about my habits. Honest about my pain. Honest about the life I wanted next.
This was bigger than weight loss. This was a full life shift..
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Day 54 of my Walking for Wellness Challenge 💪✨�Down 180 lbs… 90 lbs to go.
This morning started with stretching, then a walk, and core work to finish. Simple. Consistent. Repeatable.
But here’s what made today different…�I fed my mind too.
Listened to The Best One Yet podcast and it had me thinking about money, habits, and how the world around us is constantly influencing our choices—even how we spend.
That’s when it clicked…
This journey isn’t just weight loss.�It’s awareness.�It’s discipline.�It’s taking back control of your body, your habits, and your life.
If you’re on your own glow-up journey… keep going. One walk at a time.
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My Sunday Reset is basically a full-time job… but it makes Monday feel easy.
4AM wake-up, workout, meal prep, garage clean up, everything shower, family dinner, a full weekly planning reset and early bed routine.
This is how I stay consistent, grounded, ready for a strong week and become 1% better everyday.
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Are you feeling restless in midlife? Like something inside you is shifting… and you know you want more for your life?
Save this for later. Share it with a friend who is ready to awaken in midlife. Like this if you’re ready for your next chapter.
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A lot of women think emotional eating is about willpower. For me, it was about pain, stress, and survival.
Food was not the real issue. It was the outlet.
When I started looking at the emotions under the habit, I finally began to heal.
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My Weekend To Do’s.
Every Friday night or Saturday early morning I plan my to do’s for the weekend.
First I make notes in my notes app on my phone on Friday at work. I brainstorm and thought download all the things I want to accomplish this weekend.
Then by Saturday morning I transfer it to my To Do Notebook. I keep track of everything that weekend and check off what I complete.
It keeps me organized and productive.
So I thought I’d share with you my process so incase you were looking for some inspiration.
Have a great weekend! Get all your things done so you too can be productive and successful in this season.
Love Jax
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For a long time, my emotional eating happened in private. Late nights. Heavy stress. Heavy shame. Heavy emotions.
This was one of the hardest parts of my story to admit, but it was also the start of my healing.
I was not weak. I was overwhelmed. And once I understood that, everything began to change.
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Walking Challenge Day 52
Down 179 lbs since 2022
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Stretched for 10 min. first thing this morning
Walk/Sprint 20 min. this early morning at 4:45AM
Raspberry Chia Protein Yopgurt for breakfast
Love the Bend App. for early morning stretching!
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Comment or hit that ♥️ if you would be intereted buying a Wellness & Weight Loss Guide with matching podcast series. Cost $37-$47 one time.
I wrote a guide, 9 chapters. Everything that has worked for me in order to shed 180 lbs naturally in the last 3.5 years and I am 48 years old, in Perimenopause, with PCOS, on Anti-Depressents/Anxiety Medication.
If you would have interest please let me know in this post. I still have another 90 lbs to go. Not sure if I should release the guide now or when I hit my goal weight.
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Walked 35 min.
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This one hit me deep because it is true.
Sometimes the people we love most are sitting right in front of us… and still feeling far away.
Today’s challenge:
Give someone you love 10 full minutes of your undivided attention.
No phone.
No multitasking.
No rushing.
Just presence.
Look them in the eyes and ask, “How are you really?”
Then listen with your whole heart.
That is how connection grows.
That is how love feels safe.
That is how relationships get stronger.
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👟 Walking Challenge Day 50 (on camera)
Down 179 lbs., 92 lbs. to go.
Mostly natural, 30 lbs, was when I was on Zepbound for 3 months back in 2024.
On a dedicated weight loss and wellness journey since May 2022.
I am 48 years old.
I walk, stretch, body weight exercies, kettle ball exercises & diastasis recti exercises. Was part of a gym for 1.5 years. Now doing at-home workouts.
Meal prep every Sunday. Have certain high protein, high fiber meal on rotation. Drink a ton of water. Cut out sugar & white flour.
Meat, Veggies, Fruit, Dairy, Fish, Whole Grain - Whole foods. Very little processed foods.
Today…
Stretched for 15 min. (Love the BEND App.)
Walked 45 min.
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Early 4:30AM stretch
8-10 minutes of stretching and bending.
Really wakes me up and gets my blood flowing.
I learned these on the bend app or you can try youtube.
Then I do kettle ball exercises, body weight exercises, diastasis recti exercises adn walking on my walking pad
About a 75 minutes and then breakfast and shower.
Get moving ladies, your future self will thank you.
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Jax
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Body Weight Exercises 30 min.
Walked 30 min.
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